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This is a collaborative post. All opinions are my own.
Did you guys know that before I started this blog, I used to run a wedding blog? This post brings me back to those days, writing about weddings and engagements day in and day out. It's not my usual topic here, but I know a lot of people that are engaged right now or are starting to discuss timing for an engagement. One of the tricky questions during that exciting time of life is, how do I subtly drop hints about the type of engagement ring I want, without seeming too presumptuous or materialistic?? After all, marriage is about so much more than a piece of jewelry, yet...it's an important piece of jewelry that you'll hopefully have for LIFE, so you do want to love it! The good news is, your guy also wants you to love the ring he chooses (and he's probably nervous about such a big purchase), so he'll likely be grateful for a little direction.
Use The Power Of Social Media
Your man probably follows you on social media, and this is a great way of subtly giving your other half ideas on what rings you like. Pinterest is my favorite place to find and curate inspiration photos. Other social media platforms can also be good places to follow jewelry designers or jewelry stores with designs that you like.
Leaving digital breadcrumbs is a good way of feeding up suggestions without being too forceful or obvious.
Go Window Shopping Together
Before they get engaged, a lot of couples will find the excuse to wander strategically towards a jewelry shop front. They might casually browse the array of rings on display, perhaps ask the shop clerk how much does this size of diamond cost, and take the opportunity to get the ring finger sized up. Window shopping can be a great way to figure out exactly what you like (and don't like) and discuss rings together in a low-pressure way.
Give Specifics
If you’re at the point in your relationship where you can be pretty open and don’t mind if it's not a surprise, you can always just be specific with what you want. Take a moment to sit down with your partner and discuss what style of rings you like and what materials or stones you'd prefer. This might not be for everyone, but if you are particular in what you’re after, there’s no harm in just giving it to them straight. A lot of guys appreciate not having to try and read between the lines.
Whatever engagement ring your partner ends up choosing, the moment they do propose will be truly a moment you’ll never forget. After all, at that point. It’s not about the materialistic things like a piece of jewelry, it’s about you and your partner. So cherish this moment and trust that your partner has found you a ring that you’ll love--and that symbolizes a beautiful future together.
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These are some useful tips to keep in mind when selecting the perfect engagement ring. Thanks for sharing!!